Like many other Scorpio men, I am eerily drawn to the supernatural. Over the course of my lifetime, IвЂ™ve spent countless hours studying ancient mysticism, including astrology. And to keep it real, a lot of it is nonsense. So much of what appears on the Internet about these men is confusing. My hope in penning this piece is to help you as a reader better understand the Scorpio mind. Many people are curious about Scorpios because for whatever reason, they are strangely attracted to them. If the answer is yes, you wouldnвЂ™t be alone. The good, bad, and ugly on the Scorpio manДЄre you attracted to a Scorpio man? Trying to understand how Scorpio men operate in love and relationships? Hoping to gain better insight into this water sign? HeвЂ™s going to be secretive and mysterious The good, bad, and ugly on the Scorpio man.When you love a Scorpio itвЂ™s going to be the love that changes your life and your expectations for everyone else. Loving a Scorpio means appreciating the fact they really are sensitive even if they donвЂ™t show it on the outside and knowing very well out of any sign and any person, they love the hardest once you prove youвЂ™ve earned it. Because silence doesnвЂ™t make them uncomfortable and sometimes they just appreciate the company. ItвЂ™s sitting with them in silence and being okay with it. They just appreciate you there when things go wrong. You might feel like they expect the same efforts of perfection but they donвЂ™t. They strive to be the best at everything and beat themselves up when they fall short. They are very hard on themselves and unforgiving when they mess up. Loving a Scorpio means being able to live with the pressure they put on themselves that might spill over into your relationship. It takes them time to realize they are even worthy and deserving of their love. They have a really good heart, it just takes some time for them to show it to you. Loving a Scorpio means being patient with them. Loving a Scorpio means appreciating their good judgment and steering away from those who give them bad feelings, even if they canвЂ™t justify why most of the time a Scorpio is right about people. ItвЂ™s trusting them even if they donвЂ™t tell you the whole story. ItвЂ™s understanding if someone is their enemy, the person probably did something very unforgiving because Scorpios donвЂ™t blow things out of proportion for fun. ItвЂ™s knowing they will be loyal and they expect the same. Loving a Scorpio means being able to be honest with them because they will always be honest with you even when it hurts. But on the other end of that is someone who is going to need those serious talks about life at 2AM when they are confused sometimes. Instead, theyвЂ™ll make fun of you hiding behind sarcasm and trying to make people laugh. ItвЂ™s understanding they will never be the affectionate and lovey-dovey person but not asking them to be.

ItвЂ™s trusting them and how they feel even if they struggle with expressing how much you mean to them. They donвЂ™t respond well to being on a short leash or feeling like they are in a cage. Loving a Scorpio means being able to stand confidently on your own sometimes because they donвЂ™t respond well to clingy.

YouвЂ™ll admire them for being the life of the party but what everyone sees and what you know them to be are two sides of the same coin. That they might need to be alone after a party to recharge. ItвЂ™s understanding they act as both an introvert and an extrovert sometimes. ItвЂ™s respecting their wishes when they say they need space. ItвЂ™s letting them walk away when they need to be alone and know theyвЂ™ll come around. Loving a Scorpio means not taking things too personally. ItвЂ™s understanding they donвЂ™t want to talk about things sometimes because they need to process what has happened first themselves and sometimes they need to do it alone. ItвЂ™s being able to watch their face change when something upsets them. ItвЂ™s being able to read them when they are uncomfortable but they wonвЂ™t say that. Loving a Scorpio means understanding what they donвЂ™t say because so much of a Scorpio is shown through actions and not words.

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